How old is too old to have another kid?

I think it depends on the people involved. I suppose any age is fine for adoptions. Giving birth becomes more dangerous with age.

I agree that it depends on the people involved... and even if you're significantly older, if you have a strong family network that could take over in the increased likelihood that the older parents wouldn't be around for the entire childhood.

Now personally, I don't wish to have a child past the age of about 35, when many of the risks increase - and the increased potential of a multiple birth, which is already a huge possibility for me for many reasons.

I had my daughter (first pregnancy) when I was 41. When I was 45 we wanted another child and multiple miscarriages ensued. So, I have an only, wonderful child.
I meet quite a few mothers who had children in their early 40s. Although I have read of it, I have not met anyone who became pregnant naturally after the age of 44.
I hope that helps.

I've been wondering the same thing. We always figured we'd have 2 but now our son is in Kindergarten and a little more independent and I'm not sure I'm ready to start again with a brand new baby. Of course, when I'm around newborns I'm always sure I want another. But now the age gap would be about six years between the siblings and my wife likes her work enough that she would have to think twice before taking an extended leave.

I guess the risk goes up, but it seems alot of older women are having healthy babies. I don't think late 30's is a problem, and early 40's works for some. My mother had her last at 40. Suprise :shock: !
I am 37 and done[had my last at 33], only because I have already had mine, and am happy. Had I not, I would have tried into early 40's I think. I wanted children that much.

I think this is a personal choice. But I echo the others with issues that come up as an older parent. However, if my husband and I do decide to have children, I know we are going to be a lot older (we are both 32 now, and in the prime of our careers). I also feel for us it will work out a lot better if we are older. Maybe by that time, we will be able to afford to have one of us be a SAHparent.

Hi! I had my one and only (son) at 41, almost 42. My husband and I just waited too long I guess (he is 5 years younger than me), and I had a lot of trouble getting pregnant. Not as bad as some, but did go the infertility route. When I had just decided to give up, I recognized the symptoms of ovulating and Bingo! I had an amazingly comfortable pregnancy, my depression DISAPPEARED! Our bodies are amazing. I could have stayed pregnant forever, and there were no problems at all in my delivery.

We went to a genetic councillor to see what the risks were to have a second child. I decided I could live with the "odds" up until the age of 44. I was certain I would never abort, just wanted to be prepared. As it happened, I didn't get pregnant again. Only now that I'm experiencing my parents in their late 80's and the blessing of having a brother to help with major decisions, do I feel concerned for my son for our later years. On the other hand, he may have a wonderful partner, and they will deal with it just fine.

The funny thing about having a teenager when you're in your 50's is that both of your hormones are all over the map! Sometimes I just laugh about it. I so love being a Mom, at any age your children are such a gift. I didn't even think about having kids until I was in my early 30's and not in a good relationship. I'm glad I waited for the right partner, and I'm so happy I had my son. There's nothing like having children.

On the other hand, having children is a stress on your relationship. Any concerns there, I'd advise people not to. At least I wouldn't have. At the same time I have many friends and relatives who have managed on their own with kids. Don't know if I could have handled it at my age very well. So if you've got family support, a good partner, no major health issues, and the support of your doctor, go for it! You'll never see life the same way again!

Oh, and enjoy your sleep while you can. And your privacy. :)