Should the next signup thread be locked on a certain date?
Here are the compiled pros and cons for locking the thread:
PRO[list:6dfd3f9cb3][*:6dfd3f9cb3] solidifies the 'monthly' in Monthly Challenge by restricting it to the month in question[*:6dfd3f9cb3] lets everybody start on about the same page, which is integral to the atmosphere of teamwork[*:6dfd3f9cb3] would make it easier for those who gather statistics (such as peterrh and oldtricksnewdog), since they wouldn't have to constantly update their data throughout the month[/list:u:6dfd3f9cb3]
CON[list:6dfd3f9cb3][*:6dfd3f9cb3] would discourage first-timers who miss the signup time[*:6dfd3f9cb3] would also flabbergast longtime participants who miss the time due to illness, travel, etc. (in which case, special dispensation could be made after a PM to a moderator, who could temporarily unlock the thread for them)[*:6dfd3f9cb3] adds a restriction to what has usually been a loosely-moderated event[/list:u:6dfd3f9cb3]
Please also reply with your arguments for or against, and I'll add them to the pros and cons. The supposed locking time is five days, but if you feel that this is too soon or late, please post.
beyond that you are a quarter into the goal time, so perhaps should gauge your own progress.
there could also be a late bloomers challenge thread not dedicated to any particular month so that people can participate without disrupting an established group.
Just my opinion. In the big picture, it doesn't really matter either way, so let's make sure nobody gets heated over this debate.
To have a notice saying to those that come late saying they can get a reminder for the next month. And a way this could be done perhaps is to send reminders a couple days before the end of the month to all the forum users. In any case some kind of reminderservice would be a great idea! Of course its a no brainer to have zenhabits posts link to the challenge comfortably before the 'cutoff-date'.
Also, I think we need Mr. Babouta's input on this. I'll email him a link to this thread.
Also, I've noticed that not everyone posts what they're doing in the topic, they just jump in to the daily updates. So hey, thats always an option on their part too.
As far as the number of days before locking, I think five is about right. It would allow for people missing a thread because of a long weekend or short illness, but still retain the impact of a month-long challenge.
If the "Post your monthly challenge here"-thread is made sticky, this solves the problem of the thread going up and down in the forum overview.
Just my two cents. :)
1. I have always felt one of Zen Habit's attractions (both the blog and the forum) is the welcoming and approachable feel of it. To anyone who does stumble on the blog or forum after whatever date is chosen for close-off, their initial feeling may be one of elitism. Some people may well want to try and get a feel for the whole 'challenge thing' in the last days of the month before seriously knuckling down for a full month challenge, why hamper them.
2. Immediacy is important. People may stumble in late, see they can't join now, and never end up doing it. Zen Habits has always struck me as being about helping people and if just one person loses out on the help to be had because they couldn't take part immediately that would be very sad.
3. This is not a game or sport, with formal rules, nor should it be. If someone starts late, so be it, at least they are starting. No one loses out because someone starts late, it doesn't affect anyone else's challenges, it's just another face on the forum that will be a 'full' challenger next month.
Finally, and this one's important:
4. If it aint broke, don't fix it! ;)
To comment on your points though,
1) This I think is all to do with how you communicate it. If there is a notice saying
'the challenge group assembles before the 5th of (or later date) of every month, please join us <enter the next available date>, all registered forumusers will receive a reminder on the xth and the xth. Feel free to play along in the daily threads if you want to get a feel for the challenge.
And to add to your 1st point, I don't see whats unwelcoming or remotely elitist about a cutoff date, this is how life works. Any group activity starts and finishes at specific times, that is the general nature of group activities. This is about accountability helping to make people's lives better. If you can just enter at any point and you can leave at any point, it creates less meaningful traction.
2) But the challenge still is open all days of the month, you're subscribing to something that starts and finishes (in this case a monthly challenge) so you naturally sign up for the upcoming challenge. And like I mentioned, a reminder service is a great way to reinforce people to participate and not lose out or forget. The desire to participate in a challenge won't dissipate if you can't enter immediately, like happy writer hints, it just makes the pull bigger! That is a good thing. It has more transformational power
3) Nothing stops people from gently starting a challenge and possibly even participating in the daily threads. But like Happy Writer hints at, the psychological power and traction that is caused by a group that helps you be accountable has its greatest impact when you set at least a few boundaries. It's a community thing, and you want the challenge to have momentum. Forming a habit is all about setting boundaries...'now I'm going to make an empowering change and stick to it'. That's how people benefit from it.
To make people benefit from the community you've got to harness it's power. It's better to have 50 people making a committed effort for 25-31 days then 200 people 'trying' to change with people flooding in over the course of the first half month.
In summary, I think you are questioning in a lighthearted way whether a cut-off date is in the spirit of Zenhabits, and although I haven't been visiting for years... I think zenhabits is about making a meaningful difference and this I think this helps. Whether the cut-off date would be 5 days or 10...but I'd recommend earlier rather than later...
Also, as the month goes on, the number of participants has always dropped radically. Not that that is a predictor of the future. But, nonetheless, the more the merrier!
I must say if a cutoff date were actually communicated whenever the monthly challenges are mentioned on the blog, then locking the challenge thread would make more sense. Balfour's comment is interesting in this regard, perhaps if the decision is made to lock the thread after all, Leo might considering trying to reserve posts such as today's (which are naturally challenge-encouraging ) for the beginning of the month to encourage readers to start early.
Other than that, i think the way that you and I see the challenge is somewhat different, I suppose the poll will determine who's view determines it's form in future :)
As to the counter-argument that allowing some people to be late will negatively affect those that are on time... to that I paraphrase the Buddha who enjoined us to not worry so much about what other people do or don't do but instead focus on what you do or don't do. If you're gonna say "Well what's the point of me doing this exercise properly if other people are gonna be slackers about it," well then it seems to me you've missed the point of the exercise (which is to improve yourself).
Just my two cents.
I looked forward to starting for the first time this month, and though I almost missed starting! (Had I actually missed, I would have simply added it to my calendar so I'd be sure to remember next time.) I believe the waiting time was extremely helpful in getting me mentally prepared and building up the will to follow through. I've noticed the same thing in other people, in many aspects of life. This leads me to believe that keeping the availability limited makes the 'item' more valuable.
Not only that, the motivation very-much does come from the whole 'group effort' thing. Camaraderie and all that. And it's already a sizable group. It's nice for those of us who made sure to be here, that we can build that camaraderie without constant inundation of new faces to adjust to.
Please lock it. And not just x days before the end of the month... but x days INTO the month. Afterall, it's not a "21 days" habit, it's a "calendar-month" habit. Personally, I'd take it from 5 days down to 3! Three easily accounts for months that start on weekends, etc. But 5 is still reasonable. However, 10 days... 1/3 of the month!... is not reasonable IMHO, but this is not my site, nor am I a moderator here. So I respect whatever decision is made.
The spirit of the challenges dictate that you can't start any ol' time. (It's to establish a habit within the calendar month, and you need *at least* 21 days to do that!) Closing the topics is completely relevant and necessary to accomplish the goal of the whole Monthly Challenge. And if we're not looking to accomplish that... why are we here???
Meaning: Take the "monthly" out of it and make it an anytime thing, and it'll lose its attraction and it's power, just like Peter said. For that matter, you may as well just do away with the whole "monthly" part of it and have a single open forum that never changes, instead of a new one that gets created every month. Doesn't sound so attractive, eh?
I also love the ideas mentioned here about stating in the description that it is open from 1-x days, and that a reminder email will be sent from the forums. That would go far in terms of keeping people included while still maintaining the order that was clearly intended from the beginning concept.
As to the counter-argument that allowing some people to be late will negatively affect those that are on time... to that I paraphrase the Buddha who enjoined us to not worry so much about what other people do or don't do but instead focus on what you do or don't do. If you're gonna say "Well what's the point of me doing this exercise properly if other people are gonna be slackers about it," well then it seems to me you've missed the point of the exercise (which is to improve yourself).-"kc2dpt"
Very true.
I guess the same could be said of those who don't start because they can't post in a single thread where others have posted their intended habit for the month. Hmmm...
locking ... implies that if an individual hasn't started by a certain day, there's no point.-"marisa"
But isn't that *the* point? 21 days to make a habit... if you're trying to make a habit in a certain calendar month... it needs to be started at least 21 days before the end of that month.
??? It seems so simple to me. Do we really think people are so fragile as to break when they've missed a cutoff date when a new one is no more than 26 days away (assuming a 5th-of-the-month cutoff date)? My main spot online is in the middle of a whole group of pregnant, hormonal women (read: emotional and easily offended!), and even they would not take issue with this. I just don't see what's so wrong with boundaries anymore.
Closing threads is not mean, elitist, or exclusionary. It's simply acknowledging reality.
J.
(No, I'm not pregnant and hormonal! LOL. I just don't get the argument with acknowledging reality. )
As far as I can see, the Challenges are meant to be a community project (why else have the participators post progress online and in public?). Therefore, I think everyone should be on the same page from the beginning.
Even though this is my very first monthly challenge, and I'm one of the "late joiners" (Feb 5th), I thought I'd give you my two cents.
I guess the same could be said of those who don't start because they can't post in a single thread where others have posted their intended habit for the month. Hmmm...-"Miss J."
First of all, I have to point out that first-time joiners don't know how the system works... therefore, it's harder for them to see the loopholes (for lack of a better word). When I joined, I thought that somehow you had to write in the post in order for it to work... it doesn't take long before you know better, but if I had tried to sign up and I had received a message saying the forum was locked, I would've thought: "Well where do I start now?" and probably would've simply dropped it.
But isn't that *the* point? 21 days to make a habit... if you're trying to make a habit in a certain calendar month... it needs to be started at least 21 days before the end of that month.
??? It seems so simple to me. Do we really think people are so fragile as to break when they've missed a cutoff date when a new one is no more than 26 days away (assuming a 5th-of-the-month cutoff date)?-"Miss J."
As for this argument (sorry Miss J., I keep quoting you, but only because you were the last to post!), I don't think it's a question of whether people are too fragile. I don't think anyone would take it personal if the forum were locked, but lots of people (me included) would just get lazy and forget to check back. Let's not forget that many people (again, that's my case) have probably heard about the challenge several times, but at some point, something gave them the little extra push to finally decide to get on board for the challenge. That special spark of motivation is precious, because that's the moment to kick-start whatever habit you're trying to implement. By the time the reminder rolls around, that motivation might be gone.
The beginning of the month is a great reference point, but any day is a great day to start taking steps towards leading a better life! Why wait? That would be the same logic as quitting your challenge half-way through the month, just because you only achieved your goal 8/15 days... and feeling like you "messed up the month" and should start again...
The way I see this challenge, it serves to encourage people to strive and do better... and make it as easy as possible for all of us to reach our goals. We wouldn't be here if we didn't need support, so let's give all the support we can and make it easy for everyone!
And if they accomplished their goal only for the last 5 days of the month... well, great! That's 5 more days of a good life habit! I'm sure people are adults enough to understand they might not have fully formed the habit, and sign up for the same one next month...
Well sorry, that was a long post. And, as spurlis pointed out, it's not something that has great consequence. I'm personally extremely happy to be here, and so far my habit's going pretty well!
- V
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